<speak> \Pau=5000\
<speak> %name%... Listen very carefully to my voice...
<speak> You have now forgotten what gender you are. You know that you are either male or female but you can not recall which one you are.
<speak> \pau=3000\
<speak> I was wondering what your gender is %name%... Could you tell me?
<speak> \pau=10000\
<speak> You can now remember your gender and you are now back to normal.